Meditating on the Commands of Christ (85): Allow Mutual Growth

Let both grow together until the harvest, and at harvest time I will tell the reapers, “Gather the weeds first and bind them in bundles to be burned, but gather the wheat into my barn” (Matthew 13:30).

Reaper with sickle after millet, 1889, by Vincent van Gogh. Public Domain

I love this command of Christ, because it reminds us that “The Lord is not slow to fulfill his promise as some count slowness, but is patient toward you, not wishing that any should perish, but that all should reach repentance” (2 Peter 3:9, ESV). Even though there will be a day of reckoning when those who do not believe will be cast away and those who truly do believe will be rescued, this will not happen until the Day of Judgment. Meanwhile, whether we are actually shoots of wheat or tares in God’s vineyard, our job is to grow and allow mutual growth.

Wheat stacks with reaper, 1888 by Vincent van Gogh. Public Domain

What does that look like for me? That means focusing on my own growth first and foremost. That means not getting too bent out of shape over people who explore various interpretations of the Bible. That means not cutting down anybody else and allowing them their opinions. That means sharing sunshine and rain. That means not uprooting anybody.

I remember as a high schooler having a friend who had a drinking problem. (Yes; he was underage. His father and grandfather had both been alcoholics, and they had both committed suicide when they were 43). As a naive Christian from a very strict (though unbelieving) home, I had no clue how hard life was (IS!) for many, and when I learned that this young man had a drinking problem, my first response was, “Are you sure you’re really a Christian?” To me, no Christian would struggle with an addiction. Thankfully, Pat rebuked me sharply! “Don’t you ever ask me if I’m a Christian! Life is hard enough without you discouraging me. Yes, I believe, even if I am struggling” (or, something like that).

Although I can’t recall his exact words, I’ll never forget the lesson he taught me. All sorts of people struggle. I remember Mel, who was addicted to both alcohol and cigarettes, but who was immediately set free from both when he surrendered his life to Christ, and he says he was never tempted again. On the other hand, I have a dear friend who was addicted to pipe smoking and says he would smoke in a heartbeat and is always tempted, even though he resists because he knows it isn’t good for him.

Oil painting of Thetis dipping Achilles into River Styx
by Peter Paul Reubens c. 1625 Public Domain

The world is full of traps and snares, and I believe all of us have some “thorn in the flesh” (2 Corinthians 12:7) or perhaps an “Achilles Heel.” An “Achilles’ Heel” means some area of potential fatal weakness in an otherwise strong and courageous person. The term comes from legend, and according to mythology, Thetis dipped her baby, Achilles, into the River Styx by his heel. The water of the river was supposed to have magical powers to make the child invulnerable, but because Thetis was holding him by his heel, that area was never washed with the magical water, and eventually Achilles died from a heel wound.

Thankfully, when we become a child of God by faith, we are completely washed (even our heels!) by the blood of the Lamb, Jesus Christ (Revelation 1:5) and are “born again” spiritually, making us completely invulnerable to spiritual death. Nevertheless, in this life, we are still vulnerable to all sorts of trials and temptations which can (and sometimes do) defeat us.

So, what’s the solution? In this parable, Jesus is envisioning for us the way God’s kingdom works: He is the sower; we are either wheat or weeds; the angels (not people) are the ones who will do the ultimate reaping, so it’s not up to us to decide who’s a true believer or who is not. Our job is simple: Grow, and allow others to grow too. How? “And Samuel said, Hath the Lord as great delight in burnt offerings and sacrifices, as in obeying the voice of the Lord? Behold, to obey is better than sacrifice, and to hearken than the fat of rams” (1 Samuel 15:22). We grow by meditating on the Word of God and obeying it. Like wheat growing in a field, we need to be firmly rooted and grounded in the love of Christ (Ephesians 3:17), we need to be washed by the rainwater of the Word of God (Hebrews 10:22), and we need to be flooded with the sunlight of God’s presence (Psalm 4:6). If we do this, we can rest assured that we are truly wheat, and we will eventually begin to manifest the fruit of the Spirit: “love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control” (Galatians 5:22-23).

What if we aren’t? Well, more on that next week!

“Search me, O God, and know my heart!
    Try me and know my thoughts!
And see if there be any grievous way in me,
    and lead me in the way everlasting” (Psalm 139:22-23, ESV).

Reaper, 1913, by Kazimir Malevich. Public Domain

Text for this meditation: “He put another parable before them, saying, ‘The kingdom of heaven may be compared to a man who sowed good seed in his field, but while his men were sleeping, his enemy came and sowed weeds among the wheat and went away. So when the plants came up and bore grain, then the weeds appeared also. And the servants of the master of the house came and said to him, ‘Master, did you not sow good seed in your field? How then does it have weeds?’ He said to them, ‘An enemy has done this.’ So the servants said to him, ‘Then do you want us to go and gather them?’ But he said, ‘No, lest in gathering the weeds you root up the wheat along with them. Let both grow together until the harvest, and at harvest time I will tell the reapers, ‘Gather the weeds first and bind them in bundles to be burned, but gather the wheat into my barn’” (Matthew 13:24-30, ESV).

Rise Up, My Love (240): Perfect Breath and Perfect Foods

Song of Solomon 7:8 “…and the smell of thy nose like apples.” As the husband draws into union with his wife, he becomes so intimately entwined with her that he can smell her face and finds he is breathing the very air she breathes. No bad breath here! I wonder if the bride just brushed her teeth…and if so, what type of toothpaste she used, because the word for “smell” is the Hebrew riah, which is used earlier in the book to describe the fragrance of perfumes and garden spices.

How does one get breath so fresh and appealing? I don’t suppose three thousand years ago they had toothpaste and mouth wash (although they may have had their own versions that have not as yet been discovered). Perhaps her breath was the natural result of proper hygiene and good nutrition. Whatever…I would love to have breath as fragrant as apples, wouldn’t you?

Although I may not know the secret to delectable breath, I believe our heavenly bridegroom is trying to teach us a secret about spiritual attractiveness in this passage, because—as compelling as the imagery of sexual union is—the insight into spiritual oneness is even more overwhelming.

Let’s consider these two aspects of union: breasts as clusters of grapes, and breath like apples. First, the king describes her breasts as clusters of grapes. The breasts only develop in a woman as she matures, and the anatomic function of the breasts is to provide nourishment for the offspring of her union with her husband. Spiritually, the breasts…those clusters of the vine…the “fruit of the Spirit”… also develop as we mature by “abiding in the Vine” (see John 15:1-5).

We have already considered the fruit of the Spirit, but let’s read the passage thoughtfully again: “the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness, temperance” (Galatians 5:22-23). Notice that there are nine qualities mentioned, but one “fruit.” Does that ring a bell? It makes me think of the breast…just one breast, but multiple lobes within that breast producing milk. “The fruit of the spirit is…” Singular. The breasts take lactose, protein, minerals such as calcium, phosphorus, and riboflavin, vitamins (particularly A, B1 and B12), water, and milk fat to produce one glorious, perfectly balanced product: milk, which is considered nature’s most perfect food because it contains almost all the nutrients essential for human growth.  The Spirit likewise develops in us the essential qualities of love, joy, peace, patience, gentleness, goodness, faith, humility, and self-control to produce one glorious character: Christ’s, which will equip us for nurturing the spiritual offspring that result from our joyful union with Him. Oh, Lord, please develop in us a passion for you that results in spiritual maturity, fullness, and truly Christ-like character!

Rise Up, My Love (202): The Third Grace—A Living Love

SS 202:09:04:16Song of Solomon 6:9 “She is the only one of her mother, she is the choice one of her that bare her.” In the physical world, being an unknown woman’s only daughter is not something that would normally bring praise. In the spiritual world, however, it is easy to understand the significance. “Mother Earth” has produced many sons, but only one daughter who ever came to birth spiritually.

The bride of Christ is the “only one of her mother.” There is no other. Every child of earth who has ever come to faith in Christ has become a part of the mysterious body called “the bride of Christ.” Just as there is only one Christ, there is only one bride for him.

Christ is the only true Son of God…the unique, only-begotten of the Father, full of grace and truth. There is only one God; all others are false idols. There is only one true daughter; all others are spiritually dead though they may live in this physical world, just as all the idols of this world are made of sticks and stones…they are dumb and deaf.

Those who call on Buddha or look to Mohammad, or follow the way of Hindu…those who worship the sun and moon and stars…those who fall down before the statues of stone they’ve etched from lifeless rock…all of these have never come to spiritual birth. They are the dead who worship the dead. They have no spiritual life or breath and have never drunk at the fountain of everlasting life nor feasted on the living bread that came down from heaven.

Every other daughter conceived by Earth has come into the world a stillborn. “My dove, my undefiled, is but one; she is the only one of her mother, she is the choice one of her that bare her.” There may be threescore queens, and fourscore concubines, and virgins without number…there may be countless beautiful distractions in the world, but none turn the eyes of our Lord away from us, for he sees with the eyes of God. “Man looketh on the outward appearance, but the Lord looketh on the heart” (I Samuel 16:7).

Our heavenly bridegroom knows that even as he is the uniquely begotten Son of God, even so is his bride the uniquely begotten bride prepared for him. Do you ever mourn, dear daughter (son) of God, because you are not all you long to be? “Blessed are they that mourn: for they shall be comforted” (Matthew 5:4). Do you ever look about you and fret because others who profess to be Christians do not appear to be all they should be? “Do ye look on things after the outward appearance? If any man trust to himself that he is Christ’s, let him of himself think this again, that, as he is Christ’s, even so are we Christ’s” (2 Corinthians 10:7). Remember, together all believers compose the body of the bride, chosen of God—elect and precious. Be secure; take care for yourself because you belong to Jesus; love other believers because they are part of Christ’s body and bride.

As we learn to truly love others and care for them as part of the bride of Christ, we will find that we are developing the third grace which will bring about the praise of God and men: love. As it says in John 13:35: “By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another.” And, “The fruit of the Spirit is love…against such there is no law” (Galatians 5:22-23). True love, where it is observed and understood, is the universal quality that attracts people and earns their admiration and respect.

What earns the praise of our Lord and those in the world around us? A dove-like, meek and gentle spirit; an undefiled faith in the redeeming blood of Jesus; and a uniquely begotten, living love. What causes our Lord to rejoice over us? Taking on his character…the dove-like character of the Holy Spirit…the rock-like character of the ever-faithful Father…and the eternally loving character of the Son of God. Where do we get such graces? “Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, and cometh down from the Father of lights, with whom is no variableness, neither shadow of turning. Of his own will begat he us with the word of truth, that we should be a kind of first fruits of his creatures” (James 1:17-18).

“Jesus, Thy blood and righteousness,
My beauty are, my glorious dress.
Midst flaming worlds, in these arrayed,
With joy shall I lift up my head.”
(—Count Nicolaus L. von Zinzendorf, 1739)