Category Archives: Quotable Quotes

A Grownup’s Garden of Verses

My father was an English professor (who named his firstborn son “Robert Louis”), so I grew up knowing and loving Robert Louis Stevenson’s A Child’s Garden of Verses and read them  faithfully to my own children when they were tots. Stevenson’s poems were full of fun and bits of wisdom, such as:

“A CHILD should always say what’s true
And speak when he is spoken to,
And behave mannerly at table;
At least as far as he is able.”
(Praise God for the mercy implied in that last line.)

Today, in the spirit of Robert Louis Stevenson, I’d like to share a garden of thoughts and photos for adults, because at the CMDA (Christian Medical and Dental  Association) National Convention last week I heard many memorable ideas, and during that same week Alan and I visited the Biltmore Estate, where their spring gardens were bursting with beauty. Here are just a few gleanings from both experiences. You may have heard some of the quotations before, but I’m pretty sure the flower photos will be unique, unless you were just at the Biltmore last week!  🙂  “If you took all the matter but removed the space and energy from the 7+ billion people in the world, they could fit in a sugar cube.” (Dr. Richard A. Swenson) “The essence of reality is non-material.” (Dr. Richard A. Swenson) Among other things, he told us to think about these invisibles: Time, mathematics, gravity, sound, dark matter, dark energy, magnetism, love, joy, peace, grace, character, consciousness, spirit, soul, salvation, prayer, repentance, righteousness, faith, hope, God. (Consider 2 Corinthians 4:18, “While we look not at the things which are seen, but at the things which are not seen: for the things which are seen are temporal; but the things which are not seen are eternal.“)

“We may ignore, but we can nowhere evade the presence of God. The world is crowded with Him. He walks everywhere incognito.” (C.S. Lewis) “We are spiritual beings having a physical experience.” (Dallas Willard) “Joy is at God’s right hand. Whose hand are you holding?” (Ellie Lafaro) “No wonder obedience has ‘die’ in the middle.” (Dr. John Patrick) “Heresy is a good thing in the wrong place. Truth must trump loyalty.
Teach your children the hierarchy of virtues.” (Dr. John Patrick) “When you forgive, you set a prisoner free…and that prisoner is yourself!” (Ellie Lafaro, whose husband, Frank, is the CEO of Prison Fellowship International) “We can’t be sinless, but we can sin less.” (Dr. Gene Rudd) “Sometimes submission is learning when to duck so God can hit your husband!” (Ellie Lafaro) “Aim at Heaven, and you will get Earth ‘thrown in’:
aim at Earth and you will get neither.” (C.S. Lewis) “Yes, there is a GPS for heaven: “God’s Perfect Son!”
(someone shared this with Ellie Lafaro) “God wants us to give him our treasures and our trash.” (Rev. Bert Jones) “There’s no U-haul behind a hearse.” (Ellie Lafaro)  “Don’t settle for being informed rather than transformed.” (Rev. Bert Jones) “Fail to plan, and you can plan to fail.” (Ellie Lafaro) “I am a little pencil in the hand of a writing God,
who is sending a love letter to the world.” (Mother Teresa)  One thing have I desired of the Lord, that will I seek after;
that I may dwell in the house of the Lord all the days of my life,
to behold the beauty of the Lord, and to enquire in his temple
” (Psalm 27:4).

(All but the first two photos were taken at the Biltmore Estate near Ashville, North Carolina last week.)

A Few (Dozen) of My Favorite (African) Birds (42): A Pictorial Guide to Exotic African Birds

Last fall in Africa, I saw dozens of gorgeous birds. (Okay, some were really ugly too.) Many were familiar, but even more of them seemed exotic and strange. I took photos until I was dizzy from my head spinning ’round, and although our guide was an able ornithologist, after we returned home, I couldn’t remember the names for many of my new-found feathered friends. Worse yet, there’s no Complete Idiot’s Guide for Identifying African Birds, so it took me a long time (too long to admit) to figure out their names. For any of you who’d enjoy a birds’ eye view of African exotics, or for any of you who’ve been to Africa and are trying to figure out what you saw, I’ve catalogued 30+ birds alphabetically by name and where I saw them. Some of them have interesting stories, but that will have to wait for another day… Hope you enjoy!  🙂

African Fish Eagle (Choebe River, Botswana)

“The first law of success is concentration – to bend all the energies to one point, and to go directly to that point, looking neither to the right nor to the left.” ~William Mathews


African jacuna (Also known as “Jesus Bird.”Choebe River, Botswana)

“Perseverance is not a long race: It is many short races, one after another.”

~Walter Elliot   African openbill stork (Choebe River, Botswana)

“We must accept finite disappointment,
but never lose infinite hope.”~ Martin Luther King, Jr.  Black skimmers (Choebe River, Botswana)

“Who, being loved, is poor?”
~Oscar Wilde 
Red-winged starling (Cape of Good Hope, South Africa)

“It’s not what you look at that matters, it’s what you see.”

~Henry David Thoreau  Blacksmith lapwing (or “Plover.” Choebe River, Botswana)

“I am a leader by default, because nature abhors a vacuum.” ~Desmond TutuCape Glossy starling (Swaziland)

“I remind myself every morning: ‘Nothing I say this day will teach me anything. So if I’m going to learn, I must do it by listening.'” ~Larry KingCape Weaver (South Africa)

“Blessed are the flexible, for they shall never be bent out of shape.”  Egyptian Geese (South Africa)

“The real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes,
but in having new eyes.”~Marcel Proust
Golden-breasted bunting (Victoria Falls, Zimbabwe)

“The invariable mark of wisdom is to see the miraculous in the common.”
~Ralph Waldo EmersonGoliath heron  (Zambezi River, Zimbabwe)

“Beautiful light is born of darkness, so the faith that springs from conflict is often the strongest and best.”~R. Turnbull  Great heron (Zambezi River, Zimbabwe)

“Concentrate all your thoughts on the task at hand.
The sun’s rays do not burn until brought to a focus.”~Alexander Graham Bell  Hadada Ibis  (aka/Threskiornithidae, Zambezi River, Zimbzbwe)

“The brave man is not he who does not feel afraid,
but he who conquers that fear.”~Nelson Mandela   Blue Helmeted guinea fowl  (Kruger National Park, S.A.) 

“Integrity is never being ashamed of our reflections.”~David Cottrell  Little bee eater (Very little! Choebe River, Botswana)

“Don’t let what you cannot do interfere with what you can do.” ~John Wooden  Marabou stork (Very big! Victoria Falls Safari Lodge, Victoria Falls, Zimbabwe) 

“An optimist sees an opportunity in every calamity; a pessimist sees a calamity in every opportunity.” ~Winston Churchill  Ostrich (The biggest! Cape of Good Hope, South Africa)

“Humor is our way of defending ourselves from life’s absurdities by thinking absurdly about them.” ~Lewis Mumford   Spotted Eagle Owl and Owlet
(Kirstenbosch National Botanical Garden, Capetown, S.A.)

 “There is only one time when it is essential to awaken. That time is now.”
~Buddha  Yellow-billed oxpeckers on a warthog’s back
(hitchhikers! Chobe National Park, Botswana)

“He who assists someone up the hill cannot help but get to the top himself.”
~Chinese Proverb  Peacock (most beautiful…as if you didn’t know! South Africa)

“God is a prolific artist. His paintings are everywhere.”  Penguins  (Boulders Beach, Cape of Good Hope, South Africa)

“Look at a day when you are supremely satisfied at the end. It’s not a day when you lounge around doing nothing; it’s when you had everything to do, and you’ve done it.” ~Margaret Thatcher  Pied kingfisher (eating an insect along the Choebe River, Botswana)

“Destiny is not a matter of chance, it is a matter of choice. It is not a thing to be waited for, it is a thing to be achieved.” ~William Jennings Bryan   Trumpeter hornbill (aka/Zuzu!  Chobe National Park, Botswana)

“You’re only given a little spark of madness.
You mustn’t lose it.”~Robin Williams 
Red-headed weaver bird (Victoria Falls Safari Lodge, Victoria Falls, Zimbabwe)

“When you arise in the morning, give thanks for the food and for the joy of living. If you see no reason for giving thanks, the fault lies only in yourself.”
~Chief Tecumseh 
Reddish egret (pair of them! Kruger National Park, South Africa)

“In the confrontation between the stream and the rock, the stream always wins… not through strength but by perseverance.”
~H. Jackson Brown  Saddle-billed stork (Mbabane, Swaziland)

“I’m far from perfect, but I’ll be perfect for
that imperfect person that’s perfect for me.”  ~Amanda Bynes  Southern masked weaver bird (Choebe River, Botswana) 

“If you want things to be different, perhaps the answer is to become different yourself.” ~Normal Vincent Peale  Trumpeter Hornbill (Victoria Falls, Zimbabwe)

“Why not go out on a limb? Isn’t that where the fruit is?”   White-backed Vultures (drinking water in Chobe National Park, Botswana)

 “We determine whether something will be a blessing or a curse
by the way we choose to see it.”~Kate Nowak  Whydah (Widow?) bird (Hluhluwe Imfolozi Game Reserve, South Africa)

“Life engenders life. Energy creates energy.
It is by spending oneself that one becomes rich.” ~Sarah Bernhardt  Yellow-billed egrets with an openbill stork (Zambezi River, Zimbabwe)

“You can tell the value of a man by the way he treats his wife,
by the way he treats a subordinate,
and by the way he treats someone who can do nothing for him.”~Ken Babcock

Hope you enjoyed the “tour” of African birds. Africa is by far the most exotic place I’ve ever been, and I love being able to share with you a little bit of the blessing wherewith I’ve been blessed.

 “I will praise thee, O Lord, with my whole heart; I will shew forth all thy marvelous works. I will be glad and rejoice in thee: I will sing praise to thy name, O thou most High” (Psalm 9:1-2).

On the Lighter, Brighter Side

facebook-closedIn case you haven’t heard yet, I was asked to share this. keep-goingHowever, even if you can’t access Facebook, you can still do this…advice-for-shopping-in-a-mallAnd, this is definitely great advice!  🙂 doctors-strikeHere’s one for all the doctors in your life! I love this!  🙂
(Do you know any who take time to picket? I do not!)kindnessIsn’t this the truth?! galatians-2-20May this one be true for each of us!

When Do You Know If It’s Your Last Holiday?

happy-anniversary-card-for-spouseToday is Presidents’ Day…a special holiday set aside to honor all the amazing men who’ve shaped our country. I really want to share some thought-provoking quotations on time today rather than discussing the attributes and weaknesses of our various presidents (although I will confess to having done more than my fair share of complaining over the years and felt admonished by reading in Acts 23:5 last week, where Paul said, “You shall not speak evil of a ruler of your people”). card-for-appreciating-spouseLast Tuesday was Valentines Day, and last weekend Alan and I celebrated our 44th anniversary. As we are now 66, that means we’ve now lived two-thirds of our lives together! That’s almost hard to imagine, even for us!!  🙂

I’ve really been thinking a lot about the privilege of still having a mate with whom to share holidays in the light of an increasing number of friends who’ve lost their mates in the past 10 years. In Sunday school, one of those friends, Jay Link, passed along some good food for thought on the topic of time, and I’d like to share a few of his quotes with you today:

“Time flies over us, but leaves its shadow behind.” Nathaniel Hawthorne

“Time is the most valuable thing a man can spend.” Theophrastus

“Lost time is never found again.” Benjamin Franklin

“The future is something which everyone reaches at the rate of sixty minutes an hour, whatever he does, whoever he is.” C.S. Lewis

“Time is what we want most, but…what we use worst.” William Penn

“We must use time as a tool, not as a crutch.” John F. Kennedy

“Time changes everything except something within us which is always surprised by change.” Thomas Hardy

“Time is the longest distance between two places.” Tennessee Williams

“Better three hours too soon, than one minute too late.” William Shakespeare

“Time = life; therefore, waste you time and waste your life, or master your time and master your life.” Alan Lakein

“The key is not in spending time, but in investing it.” Stephen R. Covey

“Mind the moments because they become your memories.” Jane Anderson 🙂

valentine-for-wifeJay’s thoughts: Allot time to each season of life with care and intention, learning to grow in wisdom as we go. Each season of life is new to us, and it represents a path we haven’t traveled before. If it takes approximately 10,000 hours to become proficient at something, that’s about as long as many of the stages of life we pass through. I don’t know who said it, but Jay mentioned that in a car, the front windshield is larger than the rear-view mirror, because what’s in our future needs more of our attention than what’s already behind us.happy-anniversary-cardAnd, here’s my humble thought from becoming increasingly appreciative of every day Alan and I still have together: You never really know when it’s your last holiday, so “Savor each holiday as if it might be your last, because it might.”

heart-shaped-valentineSo teach us to number our days, that we may apply our hearts unto wisdom.”
Psalm 90:12

 

Thoughts on Love for Valentine’s Day

“The heart has its reasons of which reason knows nothing.” Blaise Pascalroses-and-liliesReady for some beautiful thoughts on love? Or, like Joseph Fink, do you think: “Valentine’s Day is a disaster. Any day that is designed to perfectly encapsulate something as messy and personal as two people in a romantic relationship would have to be.” Well, whether the quotes I’ve found strike you as funny, true, or overly idealistic, I was touched by all of them, and I hope that—whether or not you’re in a romantic relationship with someone today—these thoughts will cheer your spirit. Because, in all of them I found a kernel of truth that also expresses the way I experience God’s love. His love for us is greater than any human love, and the power of His love is the greatest positive energy for transformation in the universe!

“I know of only one duty, and that is to love.” Albert Camus

“If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day so I never have to live without you.” A.A. Milne

“No matter how much time and space may come between us, I still feel you.” Ken Poirot

“Love is an afternoon of fishing when I’d sooner be at the ballet.
Love is eating burnt toast and lumpy gravy with a big smile.
Love is hearing the words ‘You’re beautiful’ as I fail to squeeze into my fat jeans.
Love is refusing to bring up the past, even if doing so would be a slam dunk to prove your point.
Love is your hand wiping away my tears, trying to erase streaks of mascara.
Love is the warm hug that extinguishes an argument.
Love is a humbly-uttered apology, even if not at fault.
Love is easy to recognize but so hard to define; however, I think it boils down to this…
Love is caring so much about the feelings of someone else, you sacrifice whatever it takes to help him or her feel better.
In other words, love is my heart being sensitive to yours.” Richelle E. Goodrich

“Where there is great love, there are always wishes.” Willa Cather (and for some of us, wishes turned to prayers)

“They invented hugs to let people know you love them without saying anything.” Bill Keane

“We’re most alive when we’re in love.” John Updike

“Love will find a way through paths where wolves fear to prey.” Lord Byron

“When you love someone all your saved up wishes start coming out.” Elizabeth Bowan

“Love is the ultimate no-calorie sweetener.” Richelle E. Goodrich

“Doubt thou the stars are fire,
Doubt that the sun doth move.
Doubt truth to be a liar,
But never doubt I love.” William Shakespeare (…and God!)

“So fall asleep love, loved by me…for I know love, I am loved by thee.” Robert Browning

“For ye will know not love, if ye knoweth not your God.” Henrietta Newton Martin

“In this was manifested the love of God toward us, because that God sent his only begotten Son into the world, that we might live through him. Herein is love, not that we loved God, but that he loved us, and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins. Beloved, if God so loved us, we ought also to love one another.”
1 John 4:9-11 pink-tipped-rose-africa-copy


For the Healing of our Nation

lotus-seed-pod-meijer-garden-10-09-16“Keep your face to the sunshine and you will not see the shadows.”
~Helen Keller

“In your hands you hold the seeds of failure or the potential for greatness. Your hands are capable, but they must be used and for the right things to reap the rewards you are capable of attaining. The choice is yours.” ~Zig Ziglar

“We need a spirit of community, a sense that we are all in this together.
If we have no sense of community, the American dream will wither.”
~George Walker Bush

“If we are together nothing is impossible. If we are divided all will fail.” ~Winston Churchill

“He is a wise man who does not grieve for the things which he has not,
but rejoices for those which he has.”~Epictetus

“We must accept finite disappointment, but never lose infinite hope.”
~Martin Luther King, Jr.

“I always tried to turn every disaster into an opportunity.” ~John D. Rockefeller

“Failure is simply the opportunity to begin again more intelligently.”
~ Henry Ford

“It is better to light a candle than to curse the darkness.” ~ Eleanor Roosevelt

“If you look at what you do not have in life, you don’t have anything.
If you look at what you have in life, you have everything.” (~Can’t find author)

“You can complain because roses have thorns,
or you can rejoice because thorns have roses.”~Ziggy

“We could never learn to be brave and patient
if there were only joy in the world.” ~Helen Keller

“Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful,
committed citizens can change the world.” ~ Margaret Mead

“The first thing is to be honest with yourself. You can never have an impact on society if you have not changed yourself…Great peacemakers are all people of integrity, of honesty, and humility.” (from Walk the Talk)

“We must become the change we want to see.” ~Mahatma Gandhi

“The depth of a revival will be determined
exactly by the depth of the spirit of repentance.” ~Frank Bartleman

“Hold to Christ and for the rest be totally uncommitted” ~Herbert Butterfield

“The best thing about the future is that it comes only one day at a time.” ~Abraham Lincolnrose-in-rodin-museum-garden-5-8-16But unto you that fear my name shall the Sun of righteousness arise
with healing in his wings
” (Malachi 4:2).

Birthday Reflections à la Rogue River to Help You Keep your Chin Up

feather-floating-on-water-of-rogue-riverThese last quotes are more like strengthening medicine for Roo than honey for Pooh, but I still think they’re good food for thought!

bridge-across-rogue-riverl-in-rockford“Mistakes are the portals of discovery.” ~James Joyce

fisherman-on-rogue-river“The truth is that our finest moments are most likely to occur when we are feeling deeply uncomfortable, unhappy, or unfulfilled. For it is only in such moments, propelled by our discomfort, that we are likely to step out of our ruts and start searching for different ways or truer answers.” ~M. Scott Peck

billows-of-bright-helianthus-salicifolius-willow-leaved-sunflower-along-the-rogue-river“Every adversity, every failure, every heartache carries with it
the seed of an equal or greater benefit.” -Napoleon Hill   maple-leaf-on-water“Problems are to the mind what exercise is to the muscles,
they toughen and make strong.” ~Norman Vincent Peale   3-canoers-fall-leaves-beginning-to-turn“Few things help an individual more than to place responsibility upon him,
and to let him know that you trust him.” ~Booker T. Washington   punting-on-the-rogue-river“Destiny is not a matter of chance, it is a matter of choice. It is not a thing
to be waited for, it is a thing to be achieved.” ~William Jennings Bryan   sunshine-and-starry-water“Success seems to be connected with action. Successful people keep moving. They make mistakes, but they don’t quit.” ~Conrad Hilton  turtle-on-a-rock-in-rogue-river “It is not the strongest of the species that survive, not the most intelligent,
but the one most responsive to change.” ~Charles Darwin  boy-canoeing-on-rogue-river “You will never be the person you can be if pressure, tension and discipline
are taken out of your life.” ~ James G. Bilkey  end-of-canoe-trip-on-rogue-river “Aim for service and success will follow.” ~Albert Schweitzer   a-blessed-day-canoeing-on-the-rogue-river“Look at a day when you are supremely satisfied at the end.
It’s not a day when you lounge around doing nothing;
it’s when you had everything to do, and you’ve done it.” ~Margaret Thatcher   little-boy-playing-in-sunshine-along-river-bank“COURAGE doesn’t always roar. Sometimes COURAGE is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, “I will try again tomorrow.” ~Mary Anne Radmacher   leaf-crowned-warriorFor a just man falleth seven times, and riseth up again” (Proverbs 24:16).