When is it Time to Say Goodbye to Traditions?

creche     Have you taken down your Christmas tree and all your decorations yet? putting-away-christmas-ornamentsDo you do a good job of purging out old decorations that have lost their luster, christmas-card-children-drinking-cocoa-on-front-stepsor do you— like me—cling to every little, ratty decoration
because you cherish the associated memories?

christmas-card-children-looking-at-moonWe have (scratched) glass bulbs and birds that hung on my parents’ Christmas trees, and oodles of dilapidated designs created from popsicle sticks, ceramic figurines painted by clumsy little hands, and tattered felt decorations made in Sunday school classes and as home school projects over the years. green-christmas-tree-bulbThis year, Joel masterminded the Christmas tree decor, and I noticed that none of these beloved treasures merited even an honorable mention in his artistic arrangement. needles-from-a-christmas-treeI’m sure our world would be a more beautiful, neatly organized place if sentiment didn’t cloud our judgment. Or, what is the right word? Alter our judgement? Distract? Affect? Inform? Some traditions are good, right?creche-painted-by-childrenBut, what about the decorations that have been glued back together after curious grandchildren accidentally broke off the heads of the skaters or knocked over (and cracked) the wise men? When is it time to let go of the past to make way for the future?christmas-tree-skirt-and-needlesI’m pretty sure I am way over on the semtimental-to-a-fault side of the bell-shaped curve.thomas-kinkade-home-in-country-wallpaper-trim My Lant Henna (Aunt Helen) told me that her son arrived to visit one day with a stack of new towels for her house and replaced her entire stock. tinsel-for-christmasLast week, Alan pointed out that we need to do the same. Really? I hadn’t even noticed. What’s wrong with 20-year-old towels?? At any rate, you get the picture! watchnight-service-candleI think we all grapple with the same questions, and the answers will be different for each of us, but I am going to attempt to loosen my grip on clinging to the past in order to make room for the future this year…at least a little…and if you’ve been a nostalgic-to-a-fault, hopeless pack rat like me (spiritually and emotionally as well as physically)…I hope you’ll do the same!blur-of-red-and-green-lightsPut off your old self, which belongs to your former manner of life and is corrupt through deceitful desires, and be renewed in the spirit of your minds, and put on the new self, created after the likeness of God in true righteousness and holiness… And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.” (Ephesians 4:22-24,30-32, ESV).

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